This is bizarre and long, and I am hesitant to put it out there, but here goes: this past year I had been battling cancer, which was especially hard on my siblings because, since they are considerably older than me, I am everyone’s baby. Thanks for your comment, Lucas. Besides if he was to be someplace else, I don’t believe that I could feel his presence . My daughter was killed in a car accident on her birthday November 21, 2015 at the age of 25. She wasnt distressed… Then I woke up.. I’m sorry for your loss, Corinne. Thanks for sharing. An ADC may come to you through another person. I am able to detect when somebody is lying. That’s awesome! This happens a lot, it’s just that people think it’s just a coincidence. We had been together for over 5 yrs. My scars are a testament to the love and the relationship that I had for and with that person. I think you are already getting signs and adc’s from him. There was also still some liquid in the can which makes it especially interesting how it moved by itself. “Being Your Own Medium” online tele-class. I have dreams of him almost every night and every night I wake up at 3am like if someone woke me up. I think I might have just answered you on Grief, Mourning and Beyond on Facebook. However what I saw appeared to have genuine movement, not just a blur or flash of light. Loudly. I’ve felt all sorts of emotions, mainly deep sadness, pain, lonliness, regret, emptiness, anger (not directed towards my man but towards the doctors and nurses at the hospital for not giving him a chance to recover like they originally said they would and my faith for taking away the person who I loved deeply and was my most happiest with . Your email address will not be published. Souls must inevitably face the consequences of their choices. She whispered to me.. faintly and very distant. I will remember by heart all the things I’ve learned from you. They just don’t know any better. and it has been nothing but a nightmare for me…. It hurts me not to get a sign from her. Hi. Thanks for being a catalyst for me to do it a lot sooner. Our loved ones who pass on are our biggest fans. I have invited Robert to visit me however he chose and I had told him I would not be afraid. Thank you for understanding and listening and I am not mad after all just lost and upset over something precious I lost 37 years ago. May 23, 2009 I lost my husband, he was 42. Hope that helps. It’s been a year already and I have been through two sections of Grieving Support Group within the first year of his death and still his death is so fresh and painful. She is always connected to you. Is it a harbinger of something bad? Is there a meaning to this dream? . But latly strange things have been occurring. There are some that had no warning. I thought I was getting over him, but I have been doing the meditation, and he’s been showing up very quickly, and talking to a lot. In my dream, I heard someone was going after Liam so I was running towards his house and I saw an old army green military style Harley motorcycle randomly parked on the side of the road. Good day It can be just about anything...and the wave comes crashing. Trust the signs. What else are you going to do forever? Feeling a Touch: Your loved one may touch, hold or kiss you. i want to share my story. What are your thoughts? Dear Lorraine, he will. My dad passed away in 2004. Whatever it was, it was sure trying to get your attention! Each perspective offers a different point of view. I don’t think she is mad at anyone. They may be happy here. She and I think it must be a sign from my Dad although there’s nothing remarkable about these two items and she wore them years ago and would have no reason to put them in her car – she wasn’t even sure if she’s seen them in years. I put it back on and I said I thought it was Grandad. I am also wondering why I have not had a dream of her. I was her favorite grandchild! Do not try to control your negative thoughts. Sometimes this takes a while to work through. Thanks for sharing. When she talked about you, she had a sad smile. Same as songs. My partner died unexpectedly close to 2 weeks ago (11/12/16) . I asked him to talk to me in my dreams and he hasn’t. Also, it is time to realize that, given our will and choice in the afterlife, that you both could choose to have a do-over. sometimes i’m thinking like, i want to go with him. Yeah, for sure, Sarah! He is. And when he keeps repeating the same thing, don’t get bored over it. Thanks for writing. It was very sudden. What that means is that I've survived (so far) and a lot of people I've known and loved did not. She was truly the glue to our family. And its killing me inside. So after I did some research on this phenomena, I found your website and it just dawned on me. There is nothing to do to fix the pain we feel when we lose a loved one. I have seen that exact same vision that you described in a vision before, but as a being a light and intelligence. Not to worry. . Also, she wants you to focus on what you will do, and who you will be with the balance of your life. A few days later I sensed him hugging me and it woke me up, then 2 nights later saw him leaving the bed. Could love do anything else? And it seem each time yhey are put on the wall they fall and the glass brakes. (oh i could see her doing the cards because she was live on my FB page and she was doing a radio show on UBN). I feel for you and your family. Please and thank you! Hi Helen. Mom passed 2 months ago, she visited me in a dream lastnight. My son says it was probably a dodgy frame or something but i don’t know. She also said he said I was creative. My love to you and your children. I also feel guilty because I pushed him away we had been going through some issues since September he moved out and we were trying to work on things I wanted him to get a job etc but he wasn’t ready it caused a lot of issues with our relationship. have you ever heard of the decease giving those type of signs? Because I thought I might die (and so did everyone else), the cancer allowed me and my family to all say the things we would have needed to say to each other. It’s easy to think our loved ones have gone somewhere where we can’t reach them, but in my experience, they are always closer than we think.